ABOUT ME

 Hello and welcome! My name is **Stella Okoh**, and I am a faith-based relationship advisor.


Through my YouTube channel [@stellaokoh5](https://www.youtube.com/@stellaokoh5), I help singles and couples discover God's purpose in relationships through:

- 💍 Godly relationship tips

- 🙏 Targeted prayers

- ❤️ Divine matchmaking encouragement


This blog is an extension of that mission — a place where we grow in love, purity, and purpose through God’s Word.


Let’s trust God together as we prepare for meaningful and lasting love.


Stay blessed,  

**Stella Okoh**


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