The virtuous woman

 You are more precious than rubies. A crown to your family. A light to this generation.”

men respect her, women admire her. She smiles, clothed in strength and dignity...

1. Proverbs 31:10 (NIV) – “A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.”

2. Proverbs 12:4 (ESV) – “An excellent wife is the crown of her husband.”

3. Proverbs 31:25 (NLT) – “She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future.”

4. Matthew 5:14 (KJV) – “Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid.”

Every eye sees her worth; every heart calls her virtuous." "She is a virtuous woman—more precious than rubies. Strength and honor are her clothing, and she shall be praised by all.

Proverbs 31:10 – "Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies."

Rubies...means ...

Immense value

Rarity and uniqueness

Inner beauty and virtue 

It means a virtuous woman is rare, priceless, deeply honored, and highly treasured—more than any material wealth.

🌹 Steps to Becoming a Virtuous Woman: the one described in Proverbs 31) is a journey of purpose, character, faith, and discipline. Here are the key steps:

1. Fear the Lord Above All (Put God First)

> “A woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” – Proverbs 31:30

Build a daily relationship with God.

Seek His wisdom and guidance in everything.

Pray, read the Word, and obey His voice.

2. Walk in Integrity and Character

Be honest, faithful, and reliable in small and big things.

Let your yes be yes, and your no be no.

Your character should speak louder than your appear

3. Be Hardworking and Purpose-Driven

> “She works with willing hands... She rises while it is yet night.” – Proverbs 31:13–15

Don't be lazy.

Use your gifts, talents, and time well.

Be industrious in whatever your hands find to do.

4. Manage Your Home and Affairs with Wisdom

Be organized, nurturing, and responsible.

Care for your family or those in your household with love and wisdom.

Build peace and not chaos.

5. Speak with Kindness and Wisdom

> “She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.” – Proverbs 31:26

Speak life, not gossip.

Encourage and uplift others.

Let your words carry grace and wisdom.

6. Dress with Modesty and Dignity

> “She is clothed with strength and dignity.” – Proverbs 31:25

Dress well, but let your beauty shine from within.

Let your presence reflect strength, peace, and royalty.

7. Be Generous and Compassionate

> “She opens her hand to the poor and reaches out to the needy.” – Proverbs 31:20

Give with a joyful heart.

Help others, especially those in need.

Be a woman of service.

8. Be Submissive, Not Silenced

 “The heart of her husband safely trusts in her.” – Proverbs 31:11

Respect your husband or future spouse.

Know your worth and power, but use it wisely and humbly.

Partnership, not control, builds lasting love.

9. Stay Humble and Teachable

Don’t act like you’ve “arrived.”

Stay open to correction and growth.

Let older women or mentors guide you in faith and womanhood (Titus 2:3–5).

10. Leave a Legacy of Honor

Let your children, community, and generation rise and call you blessed.

Be known not just for beauty, but for wh

at you carry: virtue 

💡 Bonus: Write down Proverbs 31:10–31. Read and reflect on it daily. Let it shape your prayers and actions.