Attributes of the ONE

What to Look Out For in a Godly, Healthy Relationship Partner:

1. Spiritual Alignment:

Do they love and fear God?

Are they committed to personal spiritual growth?

(Amos 3:3 – “Can two walk together unless they are agreed?”)

2. Character and Integrity:

Are they honest, trustworthy, and respectful even when no one is watching?

3. Emotional Maturity:

How do they handle conflict, anger, stress, or disappointment?

4. Purpose Compatibility:

Do your visions align? Are they supportive of your God-given dreams?

5. Communication Style:

Are they open, gentle, and respectful when expressing themselves?

6. Family and Relationship Patterns:

What’s their relationship with family like?

Do they have unresolved trauma or toxic habits they haven’t addressed?

7. Boundaries and Respect:

Do they respect your physical, emotional, and spiritual boundaries.

8. Consistency Over Charm:

Do their actions match their words?

Do they show up faithfully over time, or just in the beginning?


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