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The virtuous woman

 You are more precious than rubies. A crown to your family. A light to this generation.” men respect her, women admire her. She smiles, clothed in strength and dignity... 1. Proverbs 31:10 (NIV) – “A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.” 2. Proverbs 12:4 (ESV) – “An excellent wife is the crown of her husband.” 3. Proverbs 31:25 (NLT) – “She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future.” 4. Matthew 5:14 (KJV) – “Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid.” Every eye sees her worth; every heart calls her virtuous." "She is a virtuous woman—more precious than rubies. Strength and honor are her clothing, and she shall be praised by all. Proverbs 31:10 – "Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies." Rubies...means ... Immense value Rarity and uniqueness Inner beauty and virtue  It means a virtuous woman is rare, priceless, deeply honored, and highl...

"What It Really Means to Take Up Your Cross Daily"

 “Taking Up Your Cross”: 1. Denying Yourself: It means saying "no" to your selfish desires, pride, and comfort in order to live for God's will. 2. Willingness to Suffer for Christ: In Jesus’ time, the cross was a symbol of death and shame. So to "take up your cross" means being ready to face suffering, rejection, persecution, or hardship for being a follower of Christ. 3. Obedience Even When It’s Hard: It’s about choosing God's path over your own, even when it's uncomfortable, painful, or unpopular. 4. Daily Surrender: Jesus says “daily,” which means this is not a one-time act, but a lifestyle of continuous surrender, commitment, and trust in God. In conclusion: Taking up your cross means living a life of sacrificial love, obedience, and faithfulness to Jesus, even when it  costs you something.

Principle that saves marriage

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My traits

 🌍 Global Thinker: Deep, wise, compassionate, and idealistic 🛠️ Problem-Solver: Takes initiative in helping others and resolving big challenges 🧔 Masculine Wisdom: Combines strength with emotional depth and leadership ✨ Charismatic Leader: Inspires others with vision and integrity

Attributes of the ONE

What to Look Out For in a Godly, Healthy Relationship Partner: 1. Spiritual Alignment: Do they love and fear God? Are they committed to personal spiritual growth? (Amos 3:3 – “Can two walk together unless they are agreed?”) 2. Character and Integrity: Are they honest, trustworthy, and respectful even when no one is watching? 3. Emotional Maturity: How do they handle conflict, anger, stress, or disappointment? 4. Purpose Compatibility: Do your visions align? Are they supportive of your God-given dreams? 5. Communication Style: Are they open, gentle, and respectful when expressing themselves? 6. Family and Relationship Patterns: What’s their relationship with family like? Do they have unresolved trauma or toxic habits they haven’t addressed? 7. Boundaries and Respect: Do they respect your physical, emotional, and spiritual boundaries. 8. Consistency Over Charm: Do their actions match their words? Do they show up faithfully over time, or just in the beginning?

Signs God Is Leading You to Your Future Spouse

 Are you waiting for God to reveal your spouse? Here are 3 spiritual signs that God may be leading you to your divine partner: 1. **You Experience Inner Peace**   Even when the relationship is not perfect, you feel a calmness in your spirit. 2. **You Grow Spiritually Together**   You encourage one another in prayer, purity, and purpose. 3. **You Receive Confirmation in Prayer**   You keep receiving signs in dreams, sermons, or scripture that affirm the connection. 🙏 **Prayer:**   Lord, help me to discern Your will in relationships. Lead me to the person You have chosen for me. 📺 **Watch the full teaching on YouTube:**   [@stellaokoh5](https://www.youtube.com/@stellaokoh5) Let me know in the comments if you’ve experienced one of these signs!

Welcome to My Blog – StellaOkoh5

 Welcome to my official blog! My name is **Stella Okoh**, and I’m here to guide you through **Godly relationship tips**, **prayer points**, and **faith-based matchmaking insights**. If you desire a relationship founded on God's Word, this is your home. Join me every week as I share content that will help you grow spiritually, emotionally, and relationally. Let God write your love story 💍   Feel free to explore: - 💖 Relationship Advice - 🙏 Powerful Prayers - 📖 Biblical Wisdom 👉 Don’t forget to check out my YouTube Channel: [@stellaokoh5](https://www.youtube.com/@stellaokoh5) Blessings always,   **Stella Okoh**